I'm not sure if this arose from my parents' Depression-era privations or the grit of their hard-scrabble Appalachian ancestors, but the message came down to me like this: Don't owe anyone anything. Avoiding indebtedness had to do with money, yes, but equally with favors or attention.
Don't ask for help. Don't call attention to yourself. Keep quiet, keep your head down, and keep working. The About-to-Be Memoirist May 30, I never meant to write a memoir. You know how it feels, don't you, to find yourself doing--with joy, satisfaction, and deep surprise-- something you knew you would never do? I hope you do. It's a healing, humbling, enlarging experience. Now, having had the very good fortune to find a publisher, Apprentice House Press, I am doing something else I never imagined myself doing: I am promoting a memoir.
In just 30 days from today the memoir will officially release and I'll be publicly shepherding into the world a book about which I cannot say, It's fiction. I made all that stuff up. I've written fiction, or tried to, for over 20 years. A novelist friend said she couldn't understand anyone's urge to write memoir. Quite a few people, writers and non-writers, have given me the equivalent of raised eyebrows--whatever they said or didn't say--when they learned my second book the first one was a novel is memoir.
There is, that vibe suggests, something just a tad trashy about writing one's own story. Maybe underlying that judgment--in the instances there is judgment--is a good, honest, existential question: What have you done that's worth writing about? Do you have a tabloid-dark secret to reveal? Have you accomplished something marvelous you've kept hidden until now? The answer, to all three questions, is no, and also yes. We all have dark secrets, if not in our own lives then in the lives of our loved ones. And we have all done something marvelous, in simply rising to the occasion of staying alive.
These truths I learned while reading from the pages of my memoir in draft to small groups of colleagues and strangers at conferences, symposia, and residencies.
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I shared true stories of my life and my family's lives with trepidation of two sorts: Who cares? People were moved.
They connected. People came up afterward to tell me what had happened to them, their parents, their children, their friends.
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They were grateful, they said, to hear that others had had similar experiences and doubts and revelations. They felt less alone and less shamed about their own vulnerabilities, their embarrassments, and their tenderness toward life, death, gain, loss.
Of course I'm sure that not everyone who heard me read those pages was moved. I'm equally sure that not everyone who feels motivated to buy and read the book will feel touched. But what I learned from those who did connect with my true stories was that the stories were worth the telling. Worth it to me, because I grew. And worth it to some readers, because they felt comforted and sustained. The next challenge--my next growth opportunity--will be sticking up for those stories in front of a larger audience, by offering my memoir to the public without flinching.
I must give up doubting the book's worth.
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And give up protecting my ego from judgments, spoken or unspoken. There is a line of Buddhist teaching stating that to dissolve one's ego is the greatest gift to others, since it is in the absence of tending one's own ego that one has the space and the clarity with which to truly pay attention to others. The Hokey Pokey CD. Superheroes of Knowledge CD. Jean Totally Math, CD.
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The sessions usually last about two hours with a twenty minute- half an hour tea break in the middle. To continue from my previous blog entries… the session before the bonfire night one was about the rural work turning more to the towns and cities with the beginning of the Industrial Revolution. We beat on large metal and plastic flower pots and used glass nuggets to represent money in a noisy way…. I write the plan beforehand but then add any adaption I make hence different tenses — and there are often plenty of on the spot ideas! In particular her use of the Big Mack as a musical instrument and for recording voice.
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I also learned the songs for this session from Emmie. Rhyme: Remember, remember , poem call and response I actually did this later in storytelling.
We stamp feel throughout to keep a beat and i renew the rhythm in-between every person, but anyone can play any pattern they like as it all fits… I play it on the low red one, but again anyone can do anything… The stamping and me doing it in-between seems to help people to create a connecting rhythm. Tibetan Chimes and other instruments such as tone chimes are useful to set the scene for going back in time. You can also add in appropriate rhythm rhymes and words.
Playing the chime again signifies this. We have continued to use the turn taking activities that I described previously. Everyone gets a turn with the activity after we sing their name. Last week I used a short cardboard tube and everyone posted a small round piece of wood through it.